Mistress Erika Lynx

If you're looking for a perfect Goddess, you've found Her.

I am a playful, sensual, and demanding Goddess who loves to utilize men to pursue my own deviant pleasures. Although any time with me is enjoyable and mutually satisfying, one should only try to serve if they are putting my pleasure and interests first.  If we do not have similar interests and at least a modicum of chemistry, you will be asked to look somewhere else.

I follow the RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink) philosophy when playing.

You should address Me with any of the following titles...

Goddess, Miss, Domina, Mistress, Queen, Lady, Your Highness, Your Radiance, Boss, Master, Sir.

Some Vital Stats...

Age: Early 20s

Height: 5'4
Shoe Size: 8
Eyes: Blue

Tattoos: None

Education: Bachelor of Science, with honors

Ethnicity: Polish and Irish
Hobbies: Mostly reading, gaming, making men kneel, hiking, and snowboarding.
Favorite Food: Avocado toast

Favorite Drink: Sazerac

Favorite Desert: Dark chocolate covered strawberries or almonds

Some of my favorite activities include:

Total Power Exchange (TPE):  The D/S dynamic and TPE is everything to me, and most of my kinks stem from it. 

Bondage: I LOVE bondage and it's definitely one of my specialties. Ropes, mummification, restraints, predicaments... You name it, I am a bondage junkie.


Foot / Shoe / Boot Worship

Domestic Servitude / Slave Training

OTK Spanking

Chastity Control

Electro-Play: I have a wide variety of equipment for electro-play and pride myself on my knowledge of safe (and fun) electroplay procedures.

Sissification or Feminization


Impact Play (slapping, caning, cropping, whipping, flogging, paddling, hitting... all fun in my book)

Role-Play Scenarios

Humiliation Play: To humble my slaves...

Breath Play



Sensory Deprivation/Sensation Play

Tickle Torture


Merciless teasing and endless denial...

My HARD limits:

• It should go without saying, but I do not offer sexual services in any capacity. I do not give nor receive anything that ends in -job or -ingus. You will not be allowed contact with my intimate areas. Ever. If you try to touch me intimately, or mention any of the following services, you will be kicked out immediately.

• I do not conduct sessions topless, bottomless, or nude. 

• I do not do facesitting unless fully clothed.

• I do not give massages.
• Kissing

• Wrestling
• Showers of ANY kind. Drinking from a glass with advanced notice may happen.
• Switching in any capacity
• Cuckhold or Forced-Bi sessions
• Anything which I do not have the expertise to do safely.
• Smoking
• Infantalism 

• Public Play (outside of kink events)

*** I only use some toys with people I know on a personal basis.

My Playspace

Location, Parking, and Availability


 I am located in my own private studio apartment with a discreet, side entrance in Jersey City, by Hamilton Park. I am a 15 minute walk (or $5 Uber) from the Grove Street PATH station.

 For those who are driving, there is street parking available but since it is Jersey City, you may have to park a couple blocks away during peak times (Weekdays 1pm-3pm). Always carefully read the parking signs.

My availability is as follows:

Monday - Thursday:  11:30am - 9pm

Friday:  11:30am - 2pm

Saturday - Sunday:  Varies, but often unavailable

* Time requested before 11:30am, after 9pm, or appointments with less than 24 hours notice may be subject to an additional charge.

Protocol and Etiquette


I only play in sober play spaces. If you arrive intoxicated prior to our session, or bring illegal substances, I will kick you out. 

When entering my space, make sure to wipe your feet on my doormat as to not track dirt inside. 

When providing the remainder of the tribute, place it on my counter at the very start of the session in a plain envelope – counted in advance. 

Ask permission before sitting on any of my furniture.

Make sure you are always humbled before me. I adore subtleties such as proper posture, keeping hands behind your back, asking permission before acting on something, etc.

 I have no tolerance for boundary pushers or pushy bottoms. Communication is important, but your purpose is to please, amuse, and serve me. This is an honor and a privilege never to be taken for granted.

The Space


If you're looking for a medieval dungeon-looking space, I recommend you go somewhere else. 

Think of my space as my discreet, fully equipped, kinky loft. I take pride in keeping my place cozy and clean, and I do not share my space with anyone else. All equipment is body-safe, high quality, and solely used by me. There are shower facilities (and clean towels, toiletries, mouthwash) available, so you are welcome to have a shower before and / or after the session.